I fall for a guy who recently got accident n being paralyzed from the chest down. His wife left him just shortly after his accident. Apparently the accident and the divorcement tore him badly. We met long after that. Our relationship is kind of ON/OFF along the time. I don't want to push it hard, because I understand what he has been through. But now, I feel like I run out idea how to make him believe in what I feel for him. I love him, I love the way he is, I love him as whole...
Once in my life, I have some points that I ask God to sent this kind of person as my soul mate: 1. The guy should be smarter than me, so he would have a nice decent job. He is smarter, and he has a decent job at managerial level 2. The guy must be funny, and still funny at the lowest point of his life. He has nice sense of humor, he always finds funny point of almost everything. 3. He must love having children He already has children and he adoooores them very much. I can see his eyes sparkling brightly every time he tells about them. 4. Can we still love each other no matter happen to our physical or psychological condition? I love him because he is, not because his wheel chair, not because of his... (suit your- self) but i love him as a whole.... a man with little bits of everything... I love him, but I don't know how to convince him...
I fall for a guy who recently got accident n being paralyzed from the chest down. His wife left him just shortly after his accident. Apparently the accident and the divorcement tore him badly. We met long after that. Our relationship is kind of ON/OFF along the time. I don't want to push it hard, because I understand what he has been through. But now, I feel like I run out idea how to make him believe in what I feel for him. I love him, I love the way he is, I love him as whole...
Once in my life, I have some points that I ask God to sent this kind of person as my soul mate:
1. The guy should be smarter than me, so he would have a nice decent job.
He is smarter, and he has a decent job at managerial level
2. The guy must be funny, and still funny at the lowest point of his life.
He has nice sense of humor, he always finds funny point of almost everything.
3. He must love having children
He already has children and he adoooores them very much. I can see his eyes sparkling brightly every time he tells about them.
4. Can we still love each other no matter happen to our physical or psychological condition?
I love him because he is, not because his wheel chair, not because of his... (suit your- self) but i love him as a whole.... a man with little bits of everything... I love him, but I don't know how to convince him...
Please help...